Here goes nothing

Welcome gents. Or dudes. Or fellas.  I'm still not sure what I want to call you yet.

And I'm still not sure what this space is going to be yet.

I'm not sure what my voice will be or what you're going to think or if anyone will even read this.

There's a chance this could happen.

There's a chance this could happen.

But, here's what I do know.

I know that being married is awesome.

I know that waking up next to my best friend is the best way to start the day.

I know that when I get a text I still hope that it’s from her.

I know that time slows down between the time she leaves work and when she gets home.

And I know that when we kiss I still get butterflies.

Here’s what else I know. I know that it’s not always that rosy.

I know that it takes work. Sometimes it takes planning. Sometimes it takes risks.

And so maybe this is what I know.

I know that marriage works better when I work at it. There’s stuff I can do to make the bad days better and the good days great.

And this stuff doesn’t have to be huge. A little goes a long way. In fact, you’ll be shocked by how little it takes to make a difference.

And that’s what I want to help with.

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Hopefully this is funny. Or inspiring. Or useful. Or if we’re lucky, maybe it’s all 3.